In a medium saucepan, add the barbecue sauce, honey, brown sugar, soy sauce, garlic, and chili flakes (if using). Bring to a boil and cook for 2-3 minutes, stirring continuously. Remove from the heat.
1 cup barbecue sauce*, 1/4 cup honey, 1/4 cup brown sugar, 2 Tablespoons soy sauce, 8-10 cloves garlic, minced, red chili flakes, optional
Place a wire rack on a baking sheet and line it with paper towels. Set aside. Fill a deep pan with about 1 inch (or so) of oil. Heat the oil to about 375 degrees over medium heat.
While the oil heats, in a large bowl, toss the wings, flour, cornstarch, salt, paprika, garlic, onion, chili powder, mustard powder, cayenne, and black pepper.
2 pounds chicken wings, halved at joints (wingettes), 3/4 cup all purpose flour, 1/4 cup cornstarch*, 2 teaspoons kosher salt, 1 teaspoon EACH smoked paprika, granulated garlic, onion powder, chili powder, & mustard powder, 1/4-1/2 teaspoon cayenne pepper, freshly ground black pepper
Place about 6-7 wings in the hot oil so they are not touching. Fry more or less at a time, depending on the size of your pan. Fry for 3-4 minutes.
Flip and fry for another 3-4 minutes or until the wings are golden and the internal temperature is at least 165 degrees.
Remove and place on the prepared baking sheet. Repeat with the remaining wings. Check the temperature of the oil occasionally and adjust the stove temperature if needed.
Quickly, bring the sauce back to a boil just to warm it up. Toss the wings and sauce together in a large bowl until well combined. Serve hot.